Most of them have no idea what they want to do in life, what they're capable of, or how to actually pull it off.
Many people spend their entire lives repressed—unable to achieve what they want, unable to break free. They were tormented by their own parents, so now they torment their children. And there's no way out; if you don't play along, everyone points fingers and judges you.
All that's left is to seek a sense of existence online.
Humility makes you annoying, and staying low-key doesn't lead to success.
Principles are held out of necessity, and so is openness to diverse perspectives.
If you compromise on the issues that truly matter, your own interests will suffer. But if you refuse to bend on trivial matters, cooperation becomes nearly impossible, and your own interests will suffer just as much.
The truth doesn't matter—whether it's confirmed you have character issues or you've been wronged and they think you're out of your mind, either way, you're unfit for the role.
“When you have no data, you’re just another person with an opinion.” — W. Edwards Deming