It’s an incredibly foolish notion to believe you can achieve victory by dragging others down instead of elevating yourself.
1. Figure out what you want.
2. Figure out what he wants.
3. Figure out how to use what he wants as a path to getting what you want.
Mind your marriage.
You've got to have unrealistic expectations of each other—in other words, it's a deal where both sides think they're getting the better end of the bargain.
Only then does it work.
So everyone wins. Who wins?
From wedding to divorce, it's simple: it's just the process of shattered expectations. #ReadingNotes
Many skills aren't learned in the moment you need them—they're acquired long beforehand, so that when the right opportunity finally comes along, you're already ready to seize it.
The original poster is spending $200 on GPT, bought their partner a MacBook, and had them learn AI—basically handling all the software and hardware setup. Then the two started arguing. Changing yourself is the work of a神; trying to change someone else is exhausting.