That’s not a punishment—it’s encouragement to do it again.
If you steal a bowl of noodles from someone, and you compensate them with a bowl of noodles — is that punishment?
No. That's enabling.
If you steal a bowl of noodles from someone, and you compensate them with a bowl of noodles — is that punishment?
No. That's enabling.
First, they don't love you.
For example, you meet a friend who seems close to you. They may not be drawn to you out of genuine appreciation, but rather because they want something from you.
Second, they're anxious.
Their anxiety gets transmitted to you.