What topics can you discuss on a blind date to assess the other person’s values and worldview?
Movies & TV Shows:
What are your favorite movies that come to mind right now, and why?
Do you prefer watching movies at the cinema or at home?
Do you have any movies with lines you can recite by heart?
What do you dislike most about people's behavior while watching a movie?
Reading:
What is your favorite book, and why?
Which books have had the biggest impact on you, and why?
When and where do you like to read?
On average, how many books do you read per year?
Music:
What are some of your favorite songs?
Do you go karaoke? If so, what songs do you sing, and how often per year?
Food:
Do you prefer a vegetarian or meat-based diet?
What is your favorite dish?
What is your favorite fruit?
Is there any food you hate or are allergic to?
Can you handle spicy food? Is there any seasoning you dislike?
What is the dish you are best at cooking?
How often do you cook per week?
In your opinion, who should cook and who should do the dishes after marriage?
Are you good at ordering food for others?
Travel:
On average, how many times do you travel per year?
What is your favorite city you've ever visited?
Are you good at planning trips?
Where is the place you most want to visit?
What is your usual travel budget?
What kind of accommodation do you choose when traveling?
Do you prefer independent travel or joining tour groups?
What do you think is the meaning of travel?
Education:
What is your highest educational degree? What was your major?
Do you have any religious beliefs?
Anime & Comics:
What anime do you like?
How many figurines do you collect per year?
Do you participate in cosplay?
Have you ever been to an anime convention?
What types of ACG merchandise do you buy?
Art & History:
How many exhibitions do you average per year?
What era of art do you like?
Which historical era interests you? Which country?
Gaming:
What games do you like to play?
What genres of games do you prefer?
What is your average weekly gaming time?
What does gaming mean to you?
How much do you spend on games per month?
Would you skip chatting or replying to messages to keep playing a game?
Sports:
What sports are you good at?
What is your average weekly exercise duration?
Do you stay up late to watch sports events?
How much are you willing to spend on sports annually?
Personal Habits:
What are your personal hobbies?
What is your favorite color?
What time do you usually wake up and go to sleep?
What time of day do you prefer to shower?
What are your days off?
How long does it usually take you to get ready when going out?
Do you smoke or drink?
Do you like keeping pets? What kinds have you owned?
What is your most important form of entertainment?
What behavior from a partner do you find most repulsive?
Family:
Do you have any siblings?
What is your family like?
Who are you living with now?
Do you want to get married?
Can you accept getting pregnant before marriage?
How many children do you want?
Do you currently have any children?
Would you be willing to live with your parents after marriage?
Do you plan to settle abroad in the future?
Would you be open to a long-distance relationship?
In a family, whose status do you think should be higher?
Do you oppose domestic violence?
Would you mind if your partner earned more than 3 times your income?
Would you mind if your partner earned less than 50% of your income?
Work:
What industry do you work in?
Do you consider your job stable?
What is your company/organization?
What is your position?
How many days a week do you work?
What time do you usually get off work?
How often do you travel for business?
Have you ever led a team?
Do you like your job?
What does work mean to you?
Personal Assets:
What is your annual income?
Do you own any real estate?
Do you drive?
What is your average monthly expense?
What do you think about premarital property notarization?
Can you accept renting after marriage?
What is your view on paying off a mortgage together?
What is your view on property division upon divorce?
Approximately how much are your total personal assets?
What is the size of your owned property? Do you have a mortgage?
Brand Consumption:
What brands do you like?
What brands do you dislike?
Which brands do you spend the most on annually?
What are your favorite clothing brands?
What are your favorite shoe brands?
What do you value most when shopping?
Do you buy luxury goods?
Do you buy second-hand items?
What categories of second-hand items do you buy?
Life Philosophy:
If you wanted to become close friends with someone, what important thing would you tell them they need to know?
What does your perfect day look like?
What is your goal for earnings? How many children do you want to have? What do you want to do after retirement?
How do you evaluate the importance of meeting the partner's parents?
What is your view on bride price (caili)?
If you had to choose one among social status, wealth, and power, which would you pick?
How much do you think a couple should contribute monthly toward a mortgage?
If you were given 10 million, how would you allocate that money?
If your closest family member broke the law, would you cover for them or urge them to surrender?
If there was an opportunity to earn gray-income money that would never be discovered, would you try it?
Regarding spending, do you belong to impulse buying or planned purchasing?
Can you accept living an ordinary life?
Under what extreme circumstances would you ask to borrow money? Under what circumstances would you agree to lend money to others?
How do you define luxury goods? How do you view girls who buy luxury goods?
If you caught your good friend cheating on their partner, would you help them hide it?
Do you think infidelity is a common phenomenon? Can it be forgiven?
Do you believe the phrase "what happens when drunk stays drunk"?
Would you have a preference for a virgin partner?
When arguing, do you think attitude is more important or being reasonable?