人情往来是指人们在社会交往中通过送礼、请客、帮忙等方式表达情感、维系关系的行为。它强调互惠和回报，是中国传统文化中重要的社交礼仪。

Ever thought that many things might just be an excuse to meet up.

What matters isn’t the gift, but the exchange itself. If that’s the case, you might realize the arrogance of your past.

The person doesn’t show, but the gift does. No problem, just deliver the gift for me. But in reality, what the other party needs is for you to be there. The gift or money is just a gesture of goodwill—give as much as you feel comfortable with. The key question is: do you have them on your mind?