Do not assume fate is unchangeable; it can be changed.

The one who changes themselves is divine; the one who tries to make others change for them is completely insane.

The process of changing yourself is: doing what you ought to do, and as you keep at it, you’ll mistakenly come to believe that was always what you wanted to do. That, in itself, is defying fate.

Fate is essentially the ultimate expression of your thinking patterns and your decision-making system.

When faced with the same event, you think one way, they think another; you act one way, they act another. As your “sample data” iterates, you gradually drift farther apart, carving out two entirely different life trajectories—this is the fate you each share. If you want your trajectory to align with theirs, even to resonate on the same frequency one day, the fix is simple: just mimic them. Think as they think, act as they act. Over time, you’ll feel it’s truly who you are, and you’ll have changed your fate.

Of course, there’s a crucial precondition: that initial willingness—the willingness to change, to endure the initial discomfort, in order to cultivate a new mindset and decision-making system.

That initial willingness before the engine even starts is truly a gift from heaven.

After reading this, fully accept it and act immediately—but how many actually do? For the same thing, why can some people hear it, accept it, and act on it, while others can’t? That’s probably heaven’s doing, or perhaps a deeper layer of fate—that’s what we call destiny. If you hear it but can’t accept it, or accept it but can’t act, then simply put, you lack the connection.