Liking can change

Most men are quick to catch feelings. As the saying goes, if you see a woman and like her at first sight, you like her. If you don't like her initially, no amount of time spent together will make you.

Most women claim to be slow burners. In their words, they're indifferent—everything depends on your performance. But unfortunately, that's a lie. When a woman says she likes you, it doesn't necessarily mean she does. Liking can change. Women aren't as enduring in their affections as they think; what they once liked can turn into dislike over time.

But here's the common ground: if she doesn't like you, she simply doesn't. No amount of excessive sycophancy will make her. It won't happen.

If she doesn't love you—or if she demands a exorbitant bride price—that's because she's looking for compensation for emotional damages.

Online, many working-class people say they earn "compensation for tolerating a miserable life." They do work they dislike while enduring immense mental torment, and that salary is their compensation for a humiliated existence.

The same applies to how women view men.