How to Maximize Efficiency in Blind Dates
Was browsing V2EX and came across this comment—thought it was pretty sharp. If you have decent access to matchmaking resources, give it a try:
Step one: add them on WeChat and chat first. If you don't sense sincere interest in getting out of singlehood during those conversations, just move on.
Step two: exchange hard facts—age, income, education, location, etc.—to see if you're even on the same page. If it gets to step two and you decide to meet in person, skip the fancy dinner and gift-giving. Just grab a coffee or take a walk in a public area. Spend about 30 minutes observing their appearance, vibe, and conversational style. If it clicks, keep going; if not, next.
This approach maximizes efficiency for both sides while cutting out the awkwardness that usually comes with blind dates. Basically, don't drag things out—that's just painful. Especially if the other person is playing hard to get or putting on airs; just pass on those.